“Just hearing someone say ‘make a speech’ makes me nervous – whether or not I’m the one doing the speech or not.” A participant made this remark at a recent workshop I conducted. Does hearing the words ‘make a speech’ make you nervous? If it does I suggest you routinely replace ‘make a speech’ with the words, ‘deliver a spoken message’. Read more…
tags | audience focused, audience getting your message, deliver a spoken message, intentional practice, make a speech, omit do a presentation, omit needless words, replace speech with spoken message, speech fearIn my speech communication and sales presentation work, when I drill participants to fluency in performing a specific task, some people will say that they don’t perform well when in drill/practice situation but say, “I’d be better in a live situation”. Read more…
tags | 'I'd be better in a live situation', Aubrey Daniel, aubrey daniels, chance encounters, fluency makes creativity possible, owning time, practice make creativity possible, train performers to fluencyImagine this. You’re at an important internal meeting. Your boss, who is leading the meeting, asks you an unexpected question or asks for your view on the matter of discussion. How would you handle that situation?
My overall suggestions for this type of interaction is to project energy and certainty (through your voice, face and body) and deliver a simple message. Read more…
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- ‘What’s important to you about us working together, so that the highest possible relationship between you and me could be achieved?’ Read more…
One, first question you can ask your sales presentation prospects at the start of a one on one meeting is this one: “What’s important to you about the relationship you have with the people who report to you?”. Read more…
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